My husband and I are highschool sweethearts. We’ve been together now for 15 years, and married for 10 (as of July 2019). Please keep in mind, I am not a therapist. I do not hold a license or degree that qualifies me as an expert. But my husband and I do have healthy boundaries, good communication and come from homes with happily married parents that served as a great example of what a healthy loving marriage looked like. These tips are what worked/works for us.